Good on you for rewatching and being honest. Half the battle of padel is not the tech, it's the ego. Most people blame partner first, equipment second, themselves never.
Couple thoughts:
On the slices vs flat — yeah, you're probably taking the ball too early on the rise. Let it drop, meet it flat, aim lower. Slice is a defensive shot for when you're out of position or need to reset, not an every-ball thing. Lefty on the right side you'll get a lot of balls to your backhand off the side wall, so that's worth drilling specifically.
On the partner — honestly, 8 weeks with someone intense but bad is actually a decent training situation. You'll learn to carry rallies, position cover for a weaker teammate, and stay mentally stable when things go sideways. All useful skills. Also your communication will improve massively because you'll have to.
Also: if he's filming, ask him to share clips. Even if his coaching takes are trash, rewatching yourself is the fastest way to improve. You already proved that by finding 3 real issues in one rewatch.
One weird thing about padel — losing with a bad partner teaches you more than winning with a good one. You just have to survive the frustration.