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I had to pay for everyone's padel game to apologize for playing so badly

024 commentsu/SilverCow87w ago
I'm a level 4-5 player, and I always try my best when I play, but last night I didn't sleep a wink. Almost all my shots went into the net or the glass, and we lost 6-1, 6-0, 6-0, 6-1 against players I usually play with. I felt so ashamed that I paid for everyone's game. Has that ever happened to you? Is it normal to pay if you are the worst player ?
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Comments (24)

u/idealrides7w ago
No, in fact there should be a rule that the only time someone needs to pay for everyone else is if they show up late.
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u/ExcellentAsk23097w ago
I showed up 15 mins late and thought of this too Seems fair They were far too kind
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u/chakalamagick7w ago
Bro why would you do that, everybody can have a very bad game
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u/AlexMihai097w ago
We all have good and bad days. I also had a game where I couldn't hit most of the balls, but that doesn't mean I had to pay for the game.
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u/SilverCow8OP7w ago
You paid the beers ?
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u/robgod507w ago
Yeah, I've done that.
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u/Conscious-Okra90467w ago
I don't think there was any need to pay for everyone. We all have bad days but it's part of the game.
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u/AdSuccessful79007w ago
Yeah btw. This is correct. Just cause you lost badly and had an off day on the court doesn’t mean u pay for everyone. Everyone needs to calm down about Padel and not take it sooo seriously 😅 We’re all there to have fun. No one is playing to be at the majors
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u/pancoste7w ago
Normalize being human and having off days, in any field. As some famous philosopher once said, some days are fucked and can't be unfucked. Just go home and sleep. Try again tomorrow.
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u/robgod507w ago
Have I ever played so badly that I pay for everyone? No. Have I ever played so badly that I stopped playing altogether for 6 months? Yep.
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u/hefbizzle7w ago
Why the hell would your friends(?) accept that even. Ridiculous. You were not alone in that match and even if you did suck that match, who cares!? Happens right. You were all on that court together. Don’t drag yourself down champ. Bounce back harder ;)
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u/Perfect_Cod_71837w ago
Your partner was also very bad!
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u/SilverCow8OP7w ago
No he was good
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u/dmackerman7w ago
So every ball came to you? Come on
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u/disappointedNHSdr7w ago
Wow I cannot believe you did that, it’s called a game for a reason. You don’t see a football player paying ticket prices back to fans if they play poorly
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u/FlatulistMaster7w ago
That’s not a good way to think about it. Everyone has off days, as many have said, and I would’ve opposed such an offer quite vehemently. I don’t want anyone leaving a game with me thinking their bad day was somehow that serious of an offense, and I kind of expect people to give me a break when I perform badly
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u/SilverCow8OP7w ago
I didn't think the community was so kind (or so stingy 🤣). Thanks for letting me see things from a different perspective. To me, it's almost disrespectful to play so badly and waste the other three people's time and money. Because yes, when you play so badly, even your opponents get bored!
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u/spagnumzwei7w ago
You should never pay for everybody for being ashamed of a bad performance. It was just one game. Forget and move on.
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u/nbenj19907w ago
What a guy! Like a real life fifa apology? Obviously, this shouldn't be the norm but surely we have all played a match where a lack of form or ability if one player means the other 3 don'tget a proper match?
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u/Agitated_Fondant60147w ago
What? Of course not. If i forgot the game entirely i would pay for the people who wasted their time turning up, but absolutely not if i just played shit. How good are these mates that they let you do that...
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u/miguelsanchezd107w ago
you should never apologize if you have tried your best, just imo
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u/zemvpferreira7w ago
Not because of a bad game, but if I were sick or otherwise seriously impaired and decided to still go play, I might. I do think it's disrespectful to keep a game when you're in no condition to play. Which I'm not saying is what happened here but that's the one circumstance.
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u/Kommanderson17w ago
Totally unnecessary. Happens to everyone at some point. If these guys know you then they know you weren’t your usual self — so no reason to feel bad about it. If you feel compelled to compensate them, then buying the beers usually suffices. Next time consider canceling if you don’t sleep. I have intermittent sleep issues and it’s definitely not worth playing on no sleep.
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